Trans friendly store advice?
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    I found mine via my therapist. But also try googling "trans support groups near me"...it's surprisingly fruitful (pardon the pun).

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  • Trans friendly store advice?
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    Have you found a local or nearby trans support group? They'd probably have the best recommendations...

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  • I’ve been making music a lot, trying to improve but I’m never satisfied with what I make… how to make it fun again?
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    I started an all-trans punk band online, and my usual music is singer-songriter. The new project really pushed me, and turns music making into a social activity! I also started another solo project that is 100% cello covers of contemporary songs (last one I did was "girls just wanna have fun"). Both of these projects push me out of my usual, and breathe some fresh air into my music. Maybe you could find some ideas that pushes you out of your comfort zone?

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  • should i get my balls removed
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    These are all my thoughts, too. I have nothing to add though...

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  • my parents might actually be accepting!
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    Most religions specifically dissuade people from thinking critically. I recall my time in my Jesuit high school, where any questioning of the tenets were frowned upon.

    The basic concept of faith is to accept something which can't be proven. It is antithetical to critical thought.

    I have spent years learning about religions of the world, as I recover from my religious trauma. There are very few which truly encourage critical thought.

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  • my parents might actually be accepting!
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    Critical thinking isn't anti-religion. Religion is anti-critical thinking.

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  • Erin Reed's Top 5 States To Be Transgender In 2023
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    WA resident here, raised in AK. The healthcare here is pretty a.azing. my medicaid pays for all surgeries, procedures, even hair removal!

    We also have some good laws like how demanding to know what kind of genitals a trans person has is something that you can call the cops about.

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  • 'You can never become a Westerner:' China's top diplomat urges Japan and South Korea to align with Beijing and 'revitalize Asia' | CNN
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    I came here to mention Japan's "Asia for Asians" campaign in the early 1900s. Glad to see I'm not the only history nerd commenting on this post!

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  • Alright Beehaw, try to sell me on your favorite album
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    Alt-J An awesome wave - it really is considered as a whole in its creation. There are interludes, dips & swells in the energy, and a whole journey of sonically related songs which keep introducing new variations and sounds.

    Sufjan Stevens the BQE - another album that really should be enjoyed as a whole journey, it follows the daily commute of so many along the Brooklyn Queens Expressway in NYC. It wanders from orchestral to electronic noise, and is a wonderful album to put on for a slow Sunday morning.

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  • US top court deals blow to LGBTQ rights in web designer case
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    The KKK isn't a protected class though, whereas sexuality and gender are

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  • 客官不可以 (Remix版): Any love for music from China? Great album.
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    I love complicated orchestrations that aren't too angry (My Brightest Diamond, Shugo Tokumaru, Sufjan Stevens, Bjork). Any suggestions?

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  • having difficulty with femininity and presentation
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    The amalgam of style, gender presentation, gender identity, and social pressures are impossible for me to parse, so I instead focus on knowing that I can't separate them & do what makes me happy (it's not hurting anyone). You do you!

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  • South Park's creators have eliminated tipping at Denver's famed Casa Bonita. Servers now make $30 an hour — and some are mad.
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    Most jobs work that way. A job has a set pay, and you can get fired or promoted. Tipping is unusual: A janitor doesnt get paid a different amount each paycheck because of how clean others feel it is this week. Cashiers who help you find things in the store don't make more that day.

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  • Judges Block Transgender Care Bans for Minors in Kentucky and Tennessee
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    We needed SOME good news from the courts after SCOTUS once again handed down more ridiculous BS.

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  • how has your pride month been?
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    I disclosed being trans to more neighbors and relatives, but stayed at home for all pride events. I don't feel safe...

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  • "Initials" by "Florian Körner", licensed under "CC0 1.0". / Remix of the original. - Created with dicebear.comInitialsFlorian Körnerhttps://github.com/dicebear/dicebearAW
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    Meet our gorgeous rooster, Blue
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    Not a guy, but thanks

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  • André 3000 has a new album on the way, according to Killer Mike
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    Ooh! Looking forward to it. I hope he wrote songs about his anxiety & struggles that he's spoken about more in interviews more recently.

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  • "Initials" by "Florian Körner", licensed under "CC0 1.0". / Remix of the original. - Created with dicebear.comInitialsFlorian Körnerhttps://github.com/dicebear/dicebearAW
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    100% agreed! If only he'd be a little more friendly...

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  • "Initials" by "Florian Körner", licensed under "CC0 1.0". / Remix of the original. - Created with dicebear.comInitialsFlorian Körnerhttps://github.com/dicebear/dicebearAW
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    Indeed! He looks just like this piece of art my in-laws have in memory of one of their parents. We didn't expect to get a rooster, much less such a beauty!

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  • "Initials" by "Florian Körner", licensed under "CC0 1.0". / Remix of the original. - Created with dicebear.comInitialsFlorian Körnerhttps://github.com/dicebear/dicebearAW
    Meet our gorgeous rooster, Blue
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    I wanted to share a TTRPG character creation (session 0) thing I did the website for. It's called *Roll for your Life*. You can get either digital issue for free with coupon code "greyrolls" at https://rollforyourlifebook.com (This is not an affiliate code, I'm just sharing a free thing that excited me)

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    I'm thinking of starting a all-trans punk band (recording individually, a la *Postal Service*). Working title: *XX Why?* Song titles so far: 1. Cissy fit 2. Sacrifice the patriarchy 3. Zaddy don't care 4. Bye bye binary Sound would be a mix of Descendents, NOFX, Bad religion, Fugazi. I play guitar, bass, vocals, and write...but I don't want to play everything myself. Looking for guitarists, drummers, bassist and vocals. Must have some ability to record a decent track. Not a serious endeavor, not a big time commitment.

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    # This is the way.

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