I especially like to blame the complex interplay of 2 different apps, 2 different Fediverse server softwares over 3 instances (spanning several incompletely mapped protocol layers) - solely on the unassuming user, without any further explanation - speaking in riddles rather than speaking frankly. On the Mastodon instance these forwards were meant for (and falsely attributed to the lemmy user with the same local username part) this behaviour would come off as very rude. But thanks for the invitation to learning the details and culture of this service with your kind explanations!

I'm having massive troubles with using lemmy.ml since around the time of the update. The website doesn't work at all, #Jerboa crashes on every start, and even in #Lemmur, some operations end in handshake (or other) errors. Furthest point to which I could debug was: When opening https://lemmy.ml and ignoring the erroneous certificate, the browser shows the content of join-lemmy.org This is from using it from Middle Europe, I've seen in another thread that it seems to work from North Americe. Maybe this helps?