6 Do’s and Don’ts of Polyamorous Relationships
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    "Everyone has their own reason, but your “why” should be specific to you and wholly dependent on you. This means you should want to explore for a more fundamental reason than just having a fun time,"

    This is a pretty good introduction overall, but why shouldn't wanting to have fun be a good reason to try non-monogamy? Isn't dating supposed to be fun?

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  • Israel strikes Gaza tower as death tolls jump after Hamas attack
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    "This is WELL beyond anything that Israel has done in the last few decades. Civilians killed during military actions in Gaza are not even remotely similar to this" why? they're still dead.

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  • Kids Shouldn’t Have to Pay for School Lunches
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    ah, i apologize, it seems like i misinterpreted.

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  • Kids Shouldn’t Have to Pay for School Lunches
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    like, it seems a bit cruel to lay blame on the parents in this situation.

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  • Anti-China Rhetoric Is Off the Charts in Western Media
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    like, just off the top of my head there's that whole "spy balloon" thing.

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  • City council removes plus sign from LGBTQ+ Pride proclamation after deciding it promotes BDSM
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    damn, that sounds like it sucks, can't relate tho

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  • City council removes plus sign from LGBTQ+ Pride proclamation after deciding it promotes BDSM
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    “Until the age of 18, I believe you belong to your parents,” this is a disgusting view.

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  • Please help me select parts for a "competent" gaming PC
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    if like, you aren't too attached to the look of them, you could save a bunch by using an air cooler instead of an AIO water cooler, they don't actually perform better than decent air coolers.

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  • What is your favorite movie?? Why??
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    Alien (1979)

    like its a scifi horror movie with incredible effects work (i love the xenomorph soso much!), and it just makes really good use of like sexual horror, like the alien itself is designed by H.R. Giger, so there's gonna be some horniness to it, but like its just a really well put together movie ^_^

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  • how's your week going, Beehaw
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    you should totes check out the commentaries on those dvds! they're all really interesting

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  • I made a solitaire game called Red Queen's Dungeon
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    just gave it a try, it feels like planning ahead isn't super useful? like it feels fairly idle, still pretty neat tho ^_^

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    the goal is long past convincing anyone to agree that climate change is happening, it is, you have to exert pressure to get political change and that won't happen without being a "nuisance".

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    they shouldn't have arrested them either, that is also violence.

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    like, ethically. they should have quit and joined the blockade.

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  • PS Plus price hike: We'll all pay for a subscription-based future | Opinion
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    just get a shitty computer tbh, worse graphics is fine actually.

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  • I Simply Do Not Have Room On My PC For Starfield
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    like i usually hate the whole, "buy a 2tb ssd, its only like $60" line. like to a lot of people that isn't something you can just drop casually for a video game (especially on top of the price of the game itself!) but I don't really think thats the perspective this writer is coming from.

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  • Starfield leaker arrested after selling copies on Internet
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    like, the game industry is incredibly exploitative, even if piracy does causes direct harm to it, thats honestly a good thing, it is set up to benefit publishers and share-holders over anyone else, especially the people actually making the games. supporting the end of that isn't "hippy-dippy"

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  • hii! what are y'alls fav playing card games? feel free to suggest stuff outside of games for the 52 card deck too!

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    Furry tgirl, it/its, i like old/weird games, talk to me about morrowind.