What are your favourite transfem tips and tricks?
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    whats the curly girl method do you have resources on that

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  • Um. hi?
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    that sounds very nice, glad you found something youre happy with <3

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  • Um. hi?
  • stella stella Now 100%

    yeah! usually theyre all just called luna and i feel special for having picked the other type of celestial object to name myself after :p

    how did you decide on your name?

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  • Um. hi?
  • stella stella Now 100%

    hi stella why did you steal my name

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  • Duplicate icons in tray (Nova)
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    this should be how it works tho, since other apps can do it just fine without the duplication

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  • how do you know?
  • stella stella Now 100%

    I would 100% be a woman if I could choose

    you can choose.

    so, you 100% are a woman

    problem solved by logic

    :3

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    for a temporary fix, go to Settings > General and disable "Internal YouTube Player"

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    wouldnt that fall under "essential cookies/data" or something like that? which is usually presented separately from "legitimate interest" in these forms and rightfully cant be turned off

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  • Can't find how to install Boost for Lemmy? Do this.
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    i like how this implies that the play store is not a trusted source

    but no, the apk hasnt been republished anywhere

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  • Early Access: Become a tester for Boost for Lemmy and share your feedback 🚀
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    first comment from boost for me! thanks for the great work <3

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  • ich_iel
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    auch unpassend, bin eher submissiv

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  • ich_iel
  • stella stella Now 100%

    würde mir ja gern den zwischenschritt sparen und direkt den schwanz schütteln. leider nicht gesellschaftlich akzeptiert

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  • UPDATE: The transphobe Ada has been defending says they misgender all trans women/NBs on Blahaj who are strangers
  • stella stella Now 100%

    incorrect. "he" for unknown gender is entirely an internet thing, because of the misogynistic assumption that everyone on the internet is male. in real life, youd always use "they" and not even notice as a native speaker

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  • ive been on e for a bit over 6 months now, which from what ive read is the earliest that people start with prog, idk how to determine if/when i should start with it and my doctor isnt very helpful since they only want to give scientifically backed advice, any ideas? if youre on prog, what was your experience like and when did you start and why?

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    Thoughts on pills vs injections
  • stella stella Now 100%

    same. been on pills for 6 months now, never missed a day, levels seem mostly fine (next checkup is this week), and im very glad i only need to be touched by a needle every few months rather than every week

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  • Should I de-transition so liberals don't see me and say maybe the republicans are on to something
  • stella stella Now 100%

    the title of your post displays a serious issue that isnt given enough attention. the amount of discourse and controversy about trans people in politics and media leads to many trans people feeling like their existence, or their decision to transition, is a political one. it is not. there is nothing political about you or how you live your life. you dont have to appease anyone. dont let them force you into detransitioning. just be yourself, take care of yourself, and live as the person you want to be.

    also, please stop looking at trans discourse in media because clearly it has affected you very negatively. do yourself a favor and cut off the negativity. get yourself a safe space, whether that be here, somewhere else online, or irl, and dont try to confront the negativity. its not worth your time

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  • Love vs Support
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    🫂

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  • Please Consider Defederating from rammy.site
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    thats not how the fediverse does things

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  • I need image help.
  • stella stella Now 100%

    nothing wrong with being slutty or having multiple partners of any kind! do whatever feels right :3

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  • previously, i woud occasionally still get through to frontpage and sometimes even load comments, but now, all i get are toasts with either "429 too many requests" or a simple "error". goodbye, it was fun while it lasted, excited for boost for lemmy! (and before anyone asks, no, i am *not* interested in any sort of method to have it keep working. i deleted my reddit account for good and do not plan on returning)

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    a few days ago, i deleted my reddit account, knowing that it would soon become useless. once boost comes back in lemmy form, i will be here! :3

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    stella

    stella@ lemmy.blahaj.zone

    she/her