Absolute worst country in the world right now (that isn't Amerikkka or Shitrael) in your opinion
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    I second Japan tbh, a country that has invented both video games to talk to women and a dedicated word for living in your childhood bedroom as an adult and like, just the worst culture that like half the guys in my city seem to be in love with...

    like, revolving sushi is good but at WHAT COST

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  • Ventilate cellar of an abandoned building properly (for leftists reasons)
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    For gasses, you should monitor co and gas, carbon dioxide alarms are uncommon outside of industries where we have a lot of carbon dioxide stored. Without a better idea of the space it's hard to suggest a ventilation solution.

    They make large diameter vent fans for buildings that are designed to run on a widely varied DC source like a solar panel, those can be really useful.

    As the other reply says, you need a large volume of air slowly so a large diameter slower fan is good. You can get flexible duct work anywhere they sell construction supplies :3

    oh, smoke alarm and fire extinguisher too! people are always smoking in abandoned buildings, burning them down

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  • General Discussion Thread - Juche 113, Week 32
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    one of the quotes on the front page of lemmygrad contrasted soviet women meeting production quotas to american women who's only aspiration are velvety, kissable hands.....

    which is a pretty based quote.

    but i like having both velvety kissable hands and meeting my production quotas

    (well oki not exactly quotas but im an industrial worker lolol)

    anyways, a gal never has to choose between soft hands and hard work, that's what gloves and lotion are for :3

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  • **i** was working on my ebike today, and i realised, hey, i bet a bunch of my comrades around the world also have cool bikes :33 if y'all wanna post ur bikes in the comments that'd be fun :3 because i live in shitty burgerland, i can't completely rely on public transit, but this bike bridges the gap between the metro and places i need to go :3 i love it! selling my car to get medically necessary surgery! Freedomland™ rocks! :3

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    General Discussion Thread - Juche 113, Week 30
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    the best part of dating as a cute girl is you can info dump about China on the first date and guys just put up with it lolol

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  • General Discussion Thread - Juche 113, Week 30
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    proletarian women (me) eat dessert and remain thin because labouring for capitalists is excellent exercise! lolol jk

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  • General Discussion Thread - Juche 113, Week 30
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    it's pretty ironic how they won't let Russian or Belarusian athletes represent their countries but the olympics committee is totally fine with the "isreal" even tho it's currently committing a genocide.......

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    what does the Korean Friendship Association do exactly?
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    @CriticalResist8@lemmygrad.ml is this true? say it ain't so?!? I had hope in Kfa being cool. if it's shitty I'm disappointed ://

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  • General Discussion Thread - Juche 113, Week 17
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    maybe 9/11 was just a marketing ploy for general motors to increase white male anxiety and sell more big pickup trucks ten years later

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  • General Discussion Thread - Juche 113, Week 16
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    Tips for engaging with the US Military

    if they live by u, like on a base, this is some good stuff to do. I can't confirm or deny if I or my friends have engaged in any of this:

    • feed them dog treats: u can dress up like ur handing out free samples at the mall, and give the service members dog treats. it's pretty fun

    • pretend ur out of gas: this is my personal favourite. somewhere near base pretend to have run out of gas. eventually a bunch of jarheads will show up to help you push ur car, stay inside slightly riding the brake. they'll keep trying, let them, but just like really wear them out. for a fun twist, start ur car after they get exhausted and drive away flipping them off

    • set up online dates with them and then don't show up. this one's just funny and obvious

    • send terrible Grindr guys to their room: only do this to bad guys on Grindr but this is also really funny

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  • oh man, poor Zionists can't even get a date anymore!?!
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    honestly this gives me the good idea about dating zionists to scam free drinks off them. that's not a bad idea at all like, i can totally be into "isreal" for like an hour, and then once he's spent like $200 on my drinks be like.........

    psych 😛

    from the river to the sea :3

    after that he will wanna not talk to me anymore, which is honestly perfect. free drinks

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  • www.thejc.com

    amazing article y'all lol > Meet 26-year-old Amy. She’s single, likes puppies and is looking for a date on Hinge. But it’s not just good-looking men she’s after; she “goes crazy for a free Palestine” – at least that’s what her dating profile says. omg > Lauren cuts to the chase by simply saying: “No Zionists”. the horror!?! > Lee wants to “make sure we’re on the same page about free Palestine”. So does Savanah. And Boris. And Michaela. oh no!?! > the majority but many profiles I see now say ‘No Zionists’.” AHHAHAHAHA > divorced, 59-year-old Stephen downloaded Hinge last summer. A few months of swiping later, Palestinian flags started appearing. oh the humanity!?! poor Stephen!!! > “But if they’re saying ‘no Zionists’ that doesn’t leave much room for me.” you guys already have a homeland, it's called Brooklyn > “It’s like the signs that used to read: ‘No Blacks. No Jews. No Dogs. No Irish.’” omg so true bestie, so true

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    Sane society vs insane psychopaths
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    all this stuff makes me so depressed. I wish the yakubian empire could just leave things alone and let other nations succeed.

    why is it the US always feels entitled to this "number 1" position? like, who made that decision?!? the US just accepts as a forgone conclusion that the order of the world is American led and it's chauvinistic and disgusting

    the American zero-sum view of geopolitics is going to get the entire world killed someday I fear

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  • Millennials and Gen Z's trendy new splurge: groceries
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    lol i spent $214 on groceries for the week yesterday :3 i'm totally splurging with my um, tacos, pasta, and salads i'm cooking, how fancy and luxurious.

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  • Which ceasefire candidate should I vote for?
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    Oki so usually I vote for my man

    Juan Guaido

    because if the US wants him to be pres of something so bad, well they might as well elect him.

    but this year I'm too disgusted and over everything to even do a joke so I actually just threw it away :3

    over 31,184 palestinians are dead today, I started out marching with my city and doing everything I could, thousands of us did but nothing changed, and now they're going after Latin Americans more aggressively than I've seen in my life, I hate this place.

    so I couldn't even bring myself to make a joke this year

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  • pov: u hired a trans girl to build the power plant
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    lol my job is pretty much to fix other people's mistakes so..... I'd say they haven't been doing too hot since long before I came along lol

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  • I think it's time for me to break up with my boyfriend
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    ya it really fucks with me mentally. nobody else in my entire life treats me that way (i left my own family over abuse/bigotry a long time ago), and like, idk. i guess i should've gotten out of it sooner probably, i just have very low self esteem

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  • I think it's time for me to break up with my boyfriend
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    thanks everybody for all the replies :3

    i know he always like attributes this behaviour to "mental health" (his exact term not mine), and like, i can probably see that, that could very well be true, but at the same time, he always makes time for the needs of his parents (who hate me and call me a "man playing dress up", i'm not, i'm a woman, and no i don't look like a guy, they're just assholes who know i'm trans so they say that anyways, and even if i did look like a guy i'm a woman so it shouldn't matter, and he doesn't stand up to them for me), so he'll like prioritise his parents' needs for stuff but never do anything for me.

    when we're together he kinda always encourages me to drink a lot (for the obvious reason guys do that with girls), and that's also like really unhealthy for me and not really something i want in my life anymore.

    and he told me "well i'll never choose you over my parents" in so many words, and it's like, alr dude, well peace ig, idk. i think i'll just kinda not see him for a few weeks and see if he says anything.

    anyways thanks y'all i'm glad i have this place, i just needed to vent ig lol :3 <3

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  • pov: u hired a trans girl to build the power plant
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    lol not a bad decision honestly it's probably the hardest industry I can think of to be in as a woman and being trans on top of it makes it even worse (I'm 'stealth' at work tho)

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  • it sucks. I've been seeing this guy for like a year and a half, and like, idk, he doesn't act like he actually cares about me? it's really weird and i feel really sad a lot because of it. he's nice ish when we're together but he never talks to me otherwise. he never texts me or calls me, when I text him usually he doesn't reply. he never like takes me out anywhere or wants to do anything with me, everything we do I have to initiate. he just wants to sit around on his phone all the time. a few months ago he totaled his car, and he still hasn't gotten a new one despite having plenty of money for one because he's a snob and will only get a car he considers "cool" which he can't afford, leaving me on the hook for all our transportation, and despite him having a decent job and like no living expenses he's never once even offered to get a meal for us both. almost every time I take us out he criticises the food/place/people in the place/atmosphere. two weeks ago I got surgery. I needed to go to another country for it. it was really major surgery and really scary for me. he didn't reach out to me a single time. never called, never wished he luck or asked how I was, still hasn't. yet he's on discord in my discord server all the time talking about other shit. I feel like I'm just not worth somebody caring about if this person who supposedly loves me cares more about discord and memes than like if I even survived anesthesia. I'm only really with him still because he's not like actively abusive to me, dating strangers is scary, and I don't wanna hurt him by breaking up with him, but honestly I think I'm at a point where I need to just let him go and move on anyways, idk :3 I'll be oki eventually

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    What is a "tankie"? Wrong answers only
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    I mean according to the Bible I guess they're from "Tanki" and not liberal?!?

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  • Every morning i get to make this face as I read the "Associated Press" to see what drivel the upstream "news" source for the mayo empire has deemed fit to feed down to the masses, usually resulting in me making a face like this: ![](https://lemmygrad.ml/pictrs/image/360f7202-ffed-40cb-9b14-53b0d1d6da4e.png) ## a few days ago we got this real gem > **Who wouldn’t like prices to start falling? Careful what you wish for, economists say** hmm well that sounds foreboding! what could possibly be bad about falling prices? > Wouldn’t it be great if prices actually fell — what economists call deflation? Who wouldn’t want to fire up a time machine and return to the days before the economy rocketed out of the pandemic recession and sent prices soaring? yes! i think it would be good! i would like to be able to afford food that isn't spaghetti! > Many economists caution, though, that consumers should be careful what they wish for. ## why?!? > Mainly because falling prices tend to discourage consumers from spending. Why buy now, after all, if you can purchase what you want — cars, furniture, appliances, vacations — at a lower price later? um.... oki. so like, i can still spend less money? oki?!? > businesses would face intense pressure to cut prices even more # oh the humanity!!! > It’s certainly true that Americans can make their paychecks go further when prices are falling. If food or gasoline prices were to tumble, households would surely find it less painful to afford groceries or their commutes to work oh my goodness imagine if those selfish people could afford groceries and commuting to work! who will think of the businesses?!?! omg anyways, i've spit all my coffee out. I love me some lib economic takes in the morning. so silly, so fun, we're so doomed. what a broken ass system rant over y'all thank you :3

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    www.thegospelcoalition.org

    Given today's controversy in the United States regarding Biden accidentally acknowledging trans people on easter Sunday, I have been in thought and reading most of the morning. I stumbled across this article this morning and it floored me. Except for ages, timelines, and the lack of physical violence and conversion therapy, this story could have been written by my parents about me. It is disgusting. Throughout the entire article the author misgenders their child consistently, but that's not even close to the end of it. This passage is deeply disturbing, but I believe it's very important to call attention to the sick thinking patterns that go on inside these peoples' heads. > During one conversation, when we said we couldn’t use his preferred name and pronouns, he said to us, “Then I can’t guarantee I won’t kill myself.” He eventually went to his room, wailing and weeping profusely. My wife and I were also crying, feeling helpless. Certainly, it’d be easier to simply call him by his preferred name and pronouns. Certainly, it’d be easier to celebrate the things he celebrates. The parent, recognizing the emotional abuse they are inflicting upon their child and its effects even acknowledges *that it would be easier* to affirm their child's gender and not be an abusive asshole. But instead, the author doubles down and adopts a victim complex, "taking up his cross" so to speak of continuing to abuse his transgender child. > When my son thought we hated him, he didn’t realize our love for Jesus (and for him) is greater than he could imagine. This sentence is deeply revealing and it is the experience of being on the other end of this resonates with me to my core. My parent's *didn't* love me. They love an abstract idea of a straight white christian *man* that they wanted to create which never existed and never will. When they say "our love for Jesus is greater", the author is showing the exact same thing my parents did. His own hatred and rejection of his child's, not only gender identity, but entire self, is way less important than their well being, and is upheld by his professed "spiritual convictions". I should note, there really isn't a coherent anti-trans argument from the Christian Bible. I've read and studied the book several times in my life, and it's hardly concerned with the ideas of gender identity, it's more about lineages and not eating shrimp, no, you cannot blame what you are on "Jesus". At the end of the day, the white american evangelical is an abusive, destructive person who seeks justification for their internal prejudices by manipulating a religion, but it has little to actually to with the religion. It's the people. The religion doesn't make them hate, hateful people adopt it as an excuse. I hope for the child of this author, that they have found a safe and healthy life away from their abusive family with people who love and support them. I know I have. It has taken me years, but I am a happy, successful, woman with a very full social circle and a great life. Sadly, not everybody makes it out of this so lucky. And for every one or two like me who survives through all of the abuse, the beatings, the torture, and the pain of white christian bigotry, I fear many more don't get through it. Sorry for the long post, I will never stop thinking on this topic. As I grow older, I work with younger transgender people in my community with similar trauma, and I try my best to never forget where I came from, and all of those who are still there. Happy trans day of visibility everybody. If you're able to, help somebody else, and if you are struggling, please never give up. :3

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    I quit vaping on October 29. I started smoking cigarettes when I was like 15, and eventually switched to vapes but then my throat got all swollen and hurt from the vape and it was like way way too much nicotine. terrible. so I got nicotine lozenges and went on those for a few months and now I'm on patches going down. I'm doing it like really gently so I don't upset my mental health, but omg I'm so happy lol I think I'll be off the patch in another month. I did this really slow because nicotine withdrawal gives me extremely severe depression. anyways if anybody feels like quitting nicotine, you totally can, and I really recommend it :3

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    oki ya it's a shitpost but fr like can the US please stop pushing this war on, like the only good thing I could see out of the coming yakubian election is maybe finally an end to this

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