Facebook and Instagram Restrict the Use of the Red Triangle Emoji Over Hamas Association
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    I like this part, well worded:

    “What is being banned are expressions of solidarity and support for Palestinians as they are trying to resist ethnic cleansing and genocide,” Mayssoun Sukarieh, a senior lecturer with the Department of International Development at King’s College London, told The Intercept. “Symbols are always created by resistance, and there will be resistance as long as there is colonialism and occupation.”

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  • For those who have not seen yet: Putin ignores prince Charles and Netanya WHO? at a holocaust forum in Jerusalem
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    I replayed it too many times and now I'm thinking about how they're all a bunch of awkward people who poop the same as everyone else, wearing suits and backed up by armed forces to give them titles. Some of them are also terrible people like israel's head international criminal, there is that too, which I guess just goes back to how banal evil can be.

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  • Thoughts on leaving one’s home country?
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    From the standpoint of being a settler and the like, I'd think it's only an issue if you are coming into some other country and expecting their culture to change for you, rather than expecting to adapt to what their culture is, especially if the expected change revolves around western imperialist norms.

    To the point of abandoning those who can't, I think there is no single "correct" answer and you kind of have to judge based on your situation. For example, some things for a person with our kind of ideology to consider: Are you doing it for safety? For individual material convenience, with no intention of contributing to the revolutionary processes of the country you move to? In other words, do you intend to do what you can to contribute to community and to the struggle elsewhere, or is it more a tiredness and exhaustion with fighting and a desire to escape from it, similar in spirit to retreating into a fantasy world to avoid problems in RL life? The anti-imperialist struggle reaches across the whole world, so there's no real escaping it. But people can have various good reasons for wanting to move, whether it's going somewhere that actually accepts them or is safe for them or is something they can contribute to meaningfully that they can't figure out how to do where they are. The imperial core does need people who know what they're doing to fight back from within, to help protect regular folks caught up in it and especially the most marginalized groups, but it's also a worldwide struggle, so there will always be stuff you can do somewhere, if you look for it. And for some people, it might turn out they're more effective elsewhere than they are in the imperial core. Or they might be able to learn things from communists abroad that they can later bring back. Doesn't necessarily have to be seen as a commitment for life.

    (Mind you, I'm not asking you to answer these questions here and I know at least one point you already addressed in OP, just posing them as stuff for people to think about.)

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  • Uncommitted movement: Trump remains biggest threat, not Democrats
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    Fair enough. And you're good, I appreciate the discussion on it in fact, I'm just challenging the general mindset in play that I see. Mean nothing personal by it. Part of my train of thought here is, if liberals actually do have a legitimate point, they need to back it up with a how - not just vague waving at intent. Especially considering that stated intent stands for just about nothing with US politicians; their donors, along with the existing levers of imperialism, seem to be the defining factor there, rather than what they say.

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  • Uncommitted movement: Trump remains biggest threat, not Democrats
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    If it actually is the worst case scenario Dems are scaring about then Americans need to learn to fight.

    This is a great point and one I don't think gets enough attention in general. One way in which it comes up for me is: what exactly are dems planning to do if Kamala wins on paper, but Trump challenges the results and rabble rouses people against them? Are they actually willing to send cops and military, if necessary, to put him behind bars, knowing that could enrage his fanatical base further? Why haven't they put him behind bars long before now, for denying the results once before, or for any number of offenses?

    We are supposed to believe a guy like that is simultaneously a huge threat to "democracy" and will be... stopped via voting. With what institutions, I don't know. They could have invented any number of reasons to throw the book at him years ago. They could have cracked down on the kind of people they claim are such a threat. Instead, they're sitting on their hands as if authority is derived only from a ballot box. They want us to believe "democracy is at stake," but are unwilling to act like it is and will even rush to condemn any attempt on the guy's life.

    It makes no sense if Trump is a real, existential threat to the current system. On the other hand, it makes a kind of sense if the power brokers don't view him as one and only view him as a different flavor of it, who can be controlled like any other president.

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  • Price gouging during a hurricane is good actually (images in description
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    The mental gymnastics some people will do to justify sociopathy. Money only means anything because of organized force that says it does. Markets have no power without that. These pontificating purveyors of psychopathy would have their positions punctured in an instant without police to back up their pricing.

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  • Uncommitted movement: Trump remains biggest threat, not Democrats
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    I guess I'm not sure I understand how exactly he is the accelerationist candidate in the first place. On a vibes level, I get why people think that. But logistically, what can he do that is substantially different from what the dems are already doing. Rabble rousing up racists is about all I can think of off the top of my head, but he's already doing that while not being in office, isn't he? Anything on a legislative level, he'll have advocacy groups fighting him and presumably the dems will at least put in some effort to fight him on stuff, to sell the continued cycle that they need to get him out, rah rah rah, like they did the last time he was in office (unless I am wrong and they didn't even try to fight him for real the last time?).

    I suppose he could have an administration that deregulates more stuff or something? But then people are going to blame him nonstop any time a piece of infrastructure fails or a "natural" disaster (hypercharged by climate change) happens.

    Maybe I'm underestimating how much the prez can do alone, idk. Just seems like a lot of what gets talked about w/ regards to him "being worse" is based on the perception that he wants to be worse and not based on what he can logistically do while in office.

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    “But within the context of our broken electoral college system, we know that voting a third party is ultimately inadvertently supporting Trump,” she said.

    It's such twisted reasoning to say that voting your conscience is actually a vote for someone terrible. I understand the reasoning they're aiming for, but twisting people's attempts to have morality against them is sick shit that has consequences. It's how you get people excusing depraved stuff under the guise of "strategy" and sleeping well at night about it. Tactics must have a clear moral core of direction behind them. Without that, there is no inherent value in them. Which brings me to...

    Zeidan says she believes Trump will "exacerbate" the genocide, annex the occupied West Bank and punish pro-Palestinian protesters in the US.

    Student protesters have already suffered under Biden. What resources is Trump going to use to "exacerbate" the genocide? To "annex" the West Bank? I'm sure it would really make his popularity go up for him to send US troops over there to get 🔻 . Biden is already funding israel freely without any real condemnation or constraint.

    Do these people have claims grounded in analysis of real existing logistics for how any of this is supposed to occur or just vibes?

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  • Israeli army says Iran has fired missiles at Israel
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    It's an interesting thought. But going for "simplest explanation" reasoning, I would say based on the fact alone that israel is known to aggressively, constantly lie, that would suggest they're more likely to be doing any lying/misleading statements here. If we consider israel as being something like Narcissistic Personality Disorder in state colony form, that kind of person never wants to admit weakness or fault, no matter what; a narcissist's actions differ from a more plainly cunning malignant psychopath in that protecting their image can be deemed more important than protecting themself materially. (Mind you, I'm not saying this situation is reducible to psychological archetypes - just drawing the comparison to try to help explain how pathological lying to the point of damaging their own goals could make a kind of sense to them as behavior, even if it seems irrational and reckless to us.)

    I don't love my own analogy here (anything too "individual psychology" focused is a bit iffy to me), but trying to get at the mindset of superiority that seems to be a significant part of what israel is and how it acts.

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  • All of a sudden Israel discovers that strikes on civilian population are bad actually
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    Isn't it not even true, on top of how ridiculous it sounds coming from them? Like I got the impression from stuff I read in passing that Iran targeted military infrastructure (which makes far more sense tactically anyway, if you aren't genocidal monsters who want to kill as many civilians as possible).

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  • Hind's Hall 2
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    It's great stuff. I cried the first time I watched it and I'm rarely the crying type (there's a visual version as well, but got predictably hit with age restriction).

    I have no illusion that macklemore is a communist but man, he deserves credit especially considering his size to lend his platform to a message like this is quite amazing. This song really touched me.

    I will say on this point, he is accurately using terms like colonizer and capitalism in this and the original Hind's Hall. Which already puts him ahead of western "leftists" who care about domestic issues, but are unwilling to speak against imperialism. I don't know where he's at exactly, in his politics, but he could be on track to be communist, even if he isn't now. And his emphasis on support for the children of Gaza is very much in the spirit of communism.

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  • Shelter-in-place, evacuation orders lifted a day after chemical plant fire sent a plume containing chlorine high into the air
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    Is there someone who knows more about how this stuff is measured, in terms of danger? The CNN article links to Rockdale FB statement as a source and that statement talks of the supposed "average of" measured levels being below "action level" but it doesn't explain how that actually relates to what is safe for a person to inhale. And there's a person in the comments of that same post saying they still see a plume with a video of it. 🫠

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    USA the terrorist organization!!!
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    This kind of "flipping it" exercise can be useful in general. One area where it comes up for me is with efforts to learn French. Some years back, when I was sort of starting to become more class conscious, but still ignorant on the level of imperialism and colonization, I was putting in some effort to learn French and had more motive to do so on the idea that they were some kind of example of the working class fighting back, historically. As I developed a more nuanced view of France, especially along with its history of colonialism, my motivation went down some.

    But when I have a thought like that, sometimes I sort of stop myself and go like, "Hang on, so are you saying it's bad that you know how to speak English? And are familiar with the more general aspects of US culture?" "Oh well, I know the nuances of US culture, blah blah blah, it's different." "Okay, so French culture isn't nuanced? French people don't have differing views on all of this too?" "Well..."

    It might be like a form of conditioned/socialized "fundamental attribution error", but on a nationwide scale:

    a cognitive attribution bias in which observers underemphasize situational and environmental factors for the behavior of an actor while overemphasizing dispositional or personality factors. In other words, observers tend to overattribute the behaviors of others to their personality (e.g., he is late because he's selfish) and underattribute them to the situation or context (e.g., he is late because he got stuck in traffic).

    And I think dialectics can help break us out of this thinking by putting emphasis on the conditions that contribute to people's behavior and contribute to the systems that develop.

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  • I AM NOT CRAZY! I KNEW THEY ARE VAMPIRES ALL ALONG! AS IF I COULD EVER MAKE SUCH A MISTAKE!
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    I was watching it and I realized, it has the same energy as those "seed faith" rich televangelists in the US. Just making stuff up on the spot, while trying to make it sound like they're revealing something profound.

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  • "Weak men create hard times"
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    Tbh, while I think this is a funny meme that uses a good format, I'm not a fan of the generational rhetoric in either direction. I will focus on the US because that seems to be where a lot of the generational rhetoric is centered on: From what I can find on dates, Fred Hampton would be considered boomer age range, if he was still alive today. Assata Shakur, still living, is another. I'm sure one can find many more who fought for better and got imprisoned or murdered by the state, or are still actively free and fighting even if they don't have a lot of visibility.

    The best way to counter generational rhetoric, in my view, is not to flip it back on the ones who say millennials/z/alpha/etc. are bad, but to counter the whole premise of saying that one generation is causing problems and another isn't. We know that's not true. It's a minority of people orchestrating most of the damage, across generations. That's not to say there isn't any damage being done by people beyond that range, but, for example, it's not some protesters showing up for Palestine or some dentist who barely reads the news who is bombing kids in Palestine, it's the US federal government and military apparatus in partnership with israel. Some people are more complicit than they should be, but the ones actually organizing the terror and pulling the trigger are not the majority.

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  • Zionists learned from Nazis
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    And the Nazis learned from the US and Jim Crow laws. And the US no doubt learned from British colonialism. Change the entity name, the colonial monster is still the same.

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  • Patsoc homophobe cringe
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    Bad ideology when person whose aesthetic I don't like happily reads to kids. Good ideology when person whose aesthetic I do like waves to crowd. I am strongman, hear me roar, pound chest. Me like chest pound aesthetic, make brain feel good. Me tough guy, tougher than those weirdos who use bright colors in things. Me only like sepia tone or grayscale, must look aged and old like socrates. New things bad, old good, but only if old comes from right color scheme and quote vibes. This how product work, color and packing I like taste better, so must be same with ideology, right?

    I don't know how I got here as satire, exactly, but I am tired...

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  • Israel’s heavy air attack on Beirut was attempt to kill Hezbollah leader, reports say
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    Meanwhile how israel actually feels about Lebanon: https://x.com/BTnewsroom/status/1839771677519163565 (tweets by BreakThrough News, using quotes from top israel figures)

    Israeli officials have repeatedly threatened to destroy all of Lebanon since October.

    Here are just a few examples:

    "There is no difference between Hezbollah and Lebanon. Lebanon will be annihilated. It will cease to exist."

    — Yoav Kisch, Israel's Minister of Education

    "Beirut must burn. I'm not saying this because I am a war monger"

    — Yoaz Hendel, Former minister, media person, Lt. Col. (Res.)

    “For the deaths of little children, [Hezbollah chief Hassan] Nasrallah should pay with his head,” Finance Minister Bezalel Smotrich tweeted,” asserting that it was “time for action” and that “Lebanon as a whole has to pay the price.”

    "Every person in Lebanon can take the map, the aerial photograph of Gaza, place it on an aerial photograph of Beirut, and ask themselves if this is what they want to happen there.”

    — Yoav Gallant, Israeli Defense Minister

    "The time has come for the price to be paid in military targets and Lebanese infrastructure, of which Hezbollah is a part."

    — Benny Gantz, Retired MK Lt. General & Minister without portfolio

    “Lebanon is a dysfunctional state incapable of enforcing UN resolution 1701 which forbids presence of Hezbollah in South Lebanon… So Israel has no option but to evacuate villages in South Lebanon and establish a buffer zone there.”

    —Amichai Chikli, Israel Minister of Diaspora

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  • Israel’s heavy air attack on Beirut was attempt to kill Hezbollah leader, reports say
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    Where have we heard this talking point before? Oh right, every single time israel mass murders civilians, they claim it was a military target and that the military target is terrorists. Before it was Hamas, Hamas, Hamas, now it's Hezbollah, Hezbollah, Hezbollah.

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  • Communists can be so incredibly insufferable.
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    it eats at me when I have to see the results of the “unjust peace” (not that what’s going on in the world or even within the cores can be remotely described as “peace”) and live in it, particularly with the Sinophobic sword of Damocles hanging over my head (ethnic Chinese myself), or with literal industrial genocide going on and the west goosestepping towards WW3 and open fascism.

    I can't pretend to understand the part about being ethnically Chinese in the imperial core, as I definitely qualify as "white" myself, but the part about "unjust peace" resonates with me in some way. I don't know if my mind is going to quite the same places, but there's something about the normalcy of things in the US that def eats at me. One expression of this where I notice it is, of all places, dating apps. I don't know what it is about it, but seeing profile after profile that has all this individualistic language about a personal lifestyle, while perhaps the most documented-in-real-time and widely publicized genocide in history is being funded and enabled by the US, is such a disorienting feeling. There's the odd profile here and there that mentions it, maybe some of it's my locale, but it's like overall, this juxtaposition of liberal individualism against the realities of what is happening in the world. Like the implied assumption is that the current system works and will keep working and everybody will sort of get to do their own thing if they try hard enough for it, and it's like, are many of these people putting on a face but don't believe the system is going to last, or are they sleepwalking through it in a political education sense of things.

    And I'll be honest, I don't think I'm doing the best I could be doing in my own case, with regards to these things. I might be doing the best I can manage right now, but I can probably work to do better going forward. And I think that's part of the disorienting feeling for me too. Like having one feet in and one foot out. But I can never unsee everything I've seen and I can't ever feel normal going back what it felt like before I was more aware of what's going on in the world beyond the imperialist bubble of propaganda. And the fact that I can't means it's all the harder to relate to a lot of people. So I can put on a face and do the individualist lifestyle dance to a point, but sometimes it feels like putting on a brave face for a kid. I know that would probably sound demeaning to people and places it applies to, but it's the best analogy I can think of at the moment. It's like this thing of pretending things are normal when they aren't because it's too upsetting to others if you don't at least try to, to a degree. That doesn't mean I never bring up the issues I care about, but it's like, trying to find the right balance of being able to meet people where they are at in order to have any chance of moving the needle and taking a principled stand. That is hard, when the default position for so many in the US is confident spew that contains various levels of barely-contained vile; and I'm not even talking about people who are openly fascist or whatever. More just the stomach-turning nature of liberalism.

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  • Basically, wanted to know where people are at with mask wearing (as it relates to containing covid and all), I know it's been a while since it started. And I've seen people who say covid can still be threatening, like through long covid and such, even if the initial impact doesn't tend to be as bad. Being in the US, it's especially hard to tell what makes sense because the gov sorta gave up on containment a while back and only ever half-assed pushing mask wearing. And wearing a mask alone was a controversial thing in some places, even in the very beginning. Then there's vaccines, which of course help, but seems to be a thing like the flu where you have to get boosters to be fully covered for variant strains. So in general, I'm wondering stuff like: 1) Do you still wear a mask or not and why? And do you have distinctions like large crowds or anything like that? 2) How does mask wearing compare by country, from what you know? For example, I'm sure China has a more pro-mask-wearing culture and policy overall, but I'm not clear on where they're at this late into it. Partly asking cause I want to re-assess my own position on it, see if it makes sense to change it at all by now. I've still been doing it, in part out of inertia, but the US management of it is such a mess, in gov and culture, it's hard to tell when it makes sense to stop vs. just caving to peer pressure of people who were never acting responsibly to begin with.

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    Disclaimer: This may read bleak, but I'm not in a bleak state of mind. I will post a comment with my thought process behind it. **The Anti-Science Infantilization of the Modern Tech World** You get up and read the news. Halfway across the world are things happening you have no control over and if you put yourself out there and protest it, you get told to stop speaking when a politician is speaking. You go on a job website and submit an application, but you may not ever receive a rejection and if you do, you will likely receive no information on why your application was rejected and some other person's wasn't. Was it something you did? Was it nothing you did? You don't know. You go on a dating app and try to match with people. If you're a man, you probably send out a lot of likes or messages that never get a response. Does your profile suck? Are you sending poor messages? You don't know. Maybe they're never getting seen in the first place. If you're a woman, you probably receive more likes and messages than you know what to do with and a lot of them are mean and objectifying. You did nothing to provoke this other than existing as a woman and no matter what you do on there, it keeps happening. You go to the grocery store to get food to live on, but some product you used has been discontinued again. You have no idea why and have to figure out a replacement. Furthermore, some product whose prices you relied on as stable have gone drastically up. Meanwhile, you're being told the economy is doing well. No one ever consults you on any of these things or tells you why it's really happening. They just say it's inevitable and your lot in life. In fact, they may say it's for your own good. You go to use your favorite product and it got a major update. A bunch of features you were relying on have changed. They say it's a better product this way and you should get used to it. You hear on the news that it'll be time to vote again soon. This is the one time, around every four years, that they say your decisions and your opinions matter. And they're telling you that this time, like the last times, it's the most important decision, possibly ever. Where with everything else, you were told to deal with being helpless to the fate of opaque systems you're not allowed to understand or weigh in on, you're now being told it all comes down to you. You drum up some sense of duty in you and you go do it. It's done. You did your part. The results come out and things go back to being as they were before. You get up and read the news. Halfway across the world are things happening you have no control over and if you put yourself out there and protest it, you get told to stop speaking when a politician is speaking. You are discouraged from using scientific process and thought to navigate the world. Everywhere you turn, the mechanisms you're up against are hidden from you. Instead, you are told to use willpower, told to use attitude, told to think differently, and eventually the universe will come together for you. Meanwhile, the machine of exploitation turns on scientifically designed wheels. The overseers of colonization, the overseers of the global capitalist empire, use science to exploit and place layers of indirection upon the process so you can't see it. You look in the mirror. You can only see yourself anymore. They'll give you a mirror so you can focus more on yourself. You see a failure looking back, a helpless abject figure. They tell you to blame yourself. You try to work on yourself to love yourself more and build yourself up, but you keep hitting invisible walls. No matter what you try to do differently, you're flying blind. And that too, they say, is your fault. It always comes back to you and can never be them. They can take away every limb, deprive every sense you have, and still they will tell you it's your fault. A failure of willpower and attitude.

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    I feel like I could do a big write up on this - I could if I wanted to. Which incidentally is the theme here. As a point of focus, there is a song by that name, which can be found here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GUuU99c_9mY It appears to be parodying the kind of person who has apathy, or even aversion, toward participating in "normal social standards" and insists that they could do it if they wanted to, but don't want to. What I find interesting about this, as it relates to a forum like here and the stuff we're able to recognize and talk about, is that I suspect there's some connection in that mindset to hyper individualism. Notably, the mindset in question is not "I can't do it," or "the system is stopping me," or "I am revolted by what it wants me to do" on their own. The mindset appears to be more like: "I kind of want to be normal, but something is in the way; however, because I can't accuse the system of being at fault, it has to be something wrong with me. Therefore, what it comes down to is that I could do it if I wanted to, but I don't want to. I maintain my self-esteem by making it a purposeful choice of mine to 'fail' rather than anything systemic." Thoughts? Edit: little tweaks to wording

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    I'm not sure how else to put it. As an example, someone who cares about issues of LGBTQIA+, but when it comes to issues of capitalism pushing exploitative practices in video games, they are siding against the player and doing the "it's on you how you spend" shtick. I suppose another way to frame this would be "how do you deal with selective empathy?" Because that seems to be how it in some cases, that the person cares about the thing that personally impacts them, but otherwise, they'll side with the exploiter in a heartbeat. It disgusts me when I see it in action, so much so I almost wrote this as a rant post in the comradelyrants section instead. But I feel it's a topic that deserves more discussion attention than that. In general, the mindset that goes something like: "So this company dropped some spikes on the sidewalk." "Well I think if somebody stepped on them, that's on them. It's really obvious that they are there and I went out and walked just fine and had a good time, I just walked on the grass to get around the spikes." The implication: individuals should be expected to change their lives to accommodate the careless, dangerous, or otherwise predatory behavior of others and if they don't, it's their fault. Like what kind of poor excuse for humanity is this stuff.

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    If there's already been discussion on this at length that someone knows of, feel free to link me. I've been thinking this over because it's one of those recurring talking points that comes up. I may have even talked about it here before in passing, but I don't remember for sure. But I wanted to talk about the core of how BS it is and the main way I see it get used. Which is that of someone saying "my [relative] lived in [socialist state] and fled it", or they will leave out the first part and just say "people lived in [socialist state] and fled it." And then the implication or outright stated, "Why aren't you taking this as proof that communism bad? Clearly communism bad!" The primary way I've seen people counter this is pointing out that those who were fleeing were sometimes, well... members of the former exploiting class. Which is true. But I'm not sure the talking point is even worth entertaining to that degree. Because like: 1) As far as I've seen, nobody provides actual hard numbers on people "fleeing communism" relative to other situations where people flee a conflict or just leave a country to go to another one in general. In fact, it's often an anecdotal claim about a single person: "My relative." 2) Is there even such a thing as a major conflict/upheaval in a country at scale where it was possible for people to flee and nobody fled? Like big change can be scary and it's always going to be somewhat disruptive of status quo, even if it's an overall benefit going forward. Not to mention major changing of hands of power usually involves some violence. So this leads me to: what is supposed to be different about communism that makes people "fleeing it" special? I've yet to see any explanation on that and so it makes me think that may be a point to push back on with people. That rather than even talking about the nature of why, first ask how it is supposed to be a special kind of "fleeing". And also, when it's purely anecdotal, asking why they are supposed to be taken seriously over the opinions of the millions (or more) of people who make up X socialist state. In that regard, it sounds a lot like the "one of my closest friends is [racial minority] trope" in that they are sort of implying the people are monolithic and one or a few can speak for all of them. Thoughts?

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    The vacuous nature of "be yourself", "follow your passion", and the self help sphere of "ignore the system"

    I remember at my college graduation, one of the student speeches being about following your passion. It's an event that stands out, but it's far from the only time I've encountered impassioned words about "being yourself" or "following your passion" or other words along those lines. How these adages are supposed to function in reality has yet to be explained to me. Oh sure, people can titter and giggle and say "be yourself, unless you're a jerk, then don't," as if hand waving away the emptiness of the words. But taking seriously what such a simple failure of the saying implies would mean taking seriously that the western imperialist order has no such space for people to be themselves and has no actual meaningful interest in them doing it. Am I supposed to "be myself" who has little interest in spending on empty material products, who has little desire to compete with others for scraps, who mostly just wants some interdependent community like most people in history had or have before the colonizers said "no, no, no that might allow you to organize against the exploitative order of things"? Am I supposed to be myself like the students at Kent State of the past who were killed for protesting? Or like the kids in Gaza who never got a chance to be themselves, were called "Hamas" and genocided? And this is not even getting into the other aspect of the being one's self, that a significant part of who we are is influenced from our environment and that we change over time. I did not always have the views on imperialism that I do, for example. I could "be myself" of the past and I would be a person that "be myself" of now would have some serious questions for. And what of passion, well, what if my passion is that "follow your passion" is terrible advice. Should I still follow it? Is liberalism really so trite as to tell people "just do whatever and it'll hold together somehow?" Given some people don't seem to take the Paradox of Tolerance seriously, I have to figure some liberals really are that trite and ineffectual at engaging with the dynamics of reality. Since that speech I heard at my college graduation, among hearing it again in other ways and other forms, I've also heard avoidance of talking about the system in other directions. In dating spheres, for example, people will say things like, "Become the person you'd want to date and then it will work." Nowhere in such statements is it addressed, the specter of rampant financial insecurity, lack of community, ideological splintering, and patriarchal and gender binary dynamics that insert an enormous amount of stress, fear, and sometimes real danger into what is portrayed at least as a process that is supposed to be fun and enjoyable for both people. Oh, you'll hear the occasional misogyny-induced rant about how it's a problem with women or something, but rarely do these things get talked about in the context of how they're affecting most people. Most of the time it is steered into how they are affecting you and what you are supposed to do about that, so long as what you want to do doesn't question the system too hard. It is such an all-encompassing mode of thinking that you can see in so many areas once you start looking for it. "Ok, but what are *you* going to do about this?" Not asked like an activist trying to recruit you to the cause, but like it is now your responsibility to single-handedly solve the problem if you complain about the problem. After all, it's your problem, right? That's what the individualist thinking says. "It must be your problem if you're bringing it up. It couldn't be mine too. All of this is happening in isolation, of course!" And the true avoidance of responsibility goes on. Not the avoidance of "personal" responsibility that the individualists harp on endlessly about while ignoring the people who are working multiple jobs to make ends meet. Rather, the avoidance of collective responsibility, which western colonizers have been taught is akin to being told you must dress in a potato sack and move down the street like a marionette with others, your head empty of any and all thoughts. Meanwhile, in actual reality, the individualists don't even want their thoughts half the time because of how dark the cloud of imperialism and its consequences is. And we get consumer products to blot out the thoughts with, blot out the pain. "Follow your passion"... why yes, thank you, I will follow my passion of doing what I can to help with liberating humanity from the shackles of imperialism and the crushing weight of the empty, nihilistic "person in a dark room staring at their reflection with the walls sound-proofed to shut out the noises of children being bombed" obsession with the self that is individualism. I will do my best to help in dismantling that, indeed.

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    More specifically, this is about people bothsidesing the ongoing genocide that zionists are committing, but I titled it more generally because this is something that can be difficult to deal with in general. In the past, I've tried to be diplomatic and meet people where they're at, slowly imparting information where I can and presenting my views where I feel able to. I rarely actually get worked up about these things in person and am generally able to go through it with people patiently, but this is something that is really pushing me to my limits. I think what is most galling to me about it, that I find as a theme in liberal thinking and struggle to be patient with at times, is the arrogance of it. I put a lot of time into these things, time that they clearly haven't put in, only to have them speak to me about it as if their position is equal and worthy of listening to simply because it is theirs. As if we are exchanging views on our favorite TV show. I will be plain too, in saying that, quite frankly, it hurts. On top of everything else, it hurts to see someone you love and trust be clinging to talking points that confuse, downplay, or otherwise misunderstand a horrifying ongoing genocide. These are people who I know mean well because I've known them my whole life and I know what kind of compassion they have, which makes it all the more disturbing to see them speaking in such a way. It illustrates how critical and influential propaganda is. But knowing that doesn't inherently make me more effective at getting people to cross that threshold from "nice" liberal to person who understands the world as more than imperialist talking points.

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    My instinct is that the first (hero complex) would tend to lead someone to adventurism, but I'm not super clear on what the second (collectivist mindset) looks like in practice. Having grown up in the US, where individualist seems to be pushed to an extreme degree and collectivism equated to being a hivemind, it's a bit difficult sometimes for me to understand what collectivism looks like in practice. Where it gets especially difficult for me, and why I thought to come ask here where people may be able to help with the distinction, is that I have people-pleasing tendencies to a degree that seems unhealthy; in the sense of not valuing my own needs and boundaries to the extent that it's difficult for me to be properly equipped to help others in the first place. In the vague land of hypotheticals, I get that difference; ok, I make sure I am taken care of to the extent that I can function effectively and then I can help others, right? But in practice, where does this line make sense for a more collectivist effort, is I think the question I'm trying to get at so that I can point in an effective direction in practice, without either: 1) Slipping toward individualist thinking in order to satisfy criteria of being "less of a people-pleaser" or 2) In the other direction, using collectivist goals as a means to feed existing people-pleasing tendencies (and forgetting to value myself in the process). As it is, conditions are not always as clean as in the hypothetical. Getting needs met can be multifaceted and take significant time. Could the problem here be that I'm just lacking strong examples to learn from in my life? I don't know. But I put the question to you. Hope this makes sense.

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