how do I find the apple watch app?
  • uhauljoe uhauljoe Now 100%

    I was able to get it on my watch, but when i try to open it, it says I need Voyager to be installed on my iphone......which it is lol

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  • Tried reaching out to my mom to see if we can try and mend our relationship. Didn't feel great, I want to try again though
  • uhauljoe uhauljoe Now 100%

    To be fair he did say teenage behavior, and I know I said and did some truly awful shit as a teenager. My parents sacrificed a ton for me, and I was just a petty and ungrateful brat tweeting shit like "a homeless man would be a better dad"

    Makes me sick just typing that out and knowing that at one point, I said it with my chest.

    I've definitely gone to my parents and apologized for the fucked up stuff I said and some of the worse things I did. Because sometimes it is the kid.

    I was depressed, and dealing with undiagnosed anxiety but that's not an excuse to say hateful, cruel things, probably just because they said no to going to the mall or something.

    I'm 27 now and my dad and I are just starting to get back to having a normal relationship where we talk about things other than like, my taxes or my car maintenance. We can chat now, and talk like a father and daughter.

    So in regards to OP......idk what his situation was but maybe the apology was warranted. But for her to still be digging her heels in........yeah it might be time to just lay it out and be like "Hey, I really want to mend our relationship. Are you interested in doing that? Because if you are not I would rather know so that we can both find peace."

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  • where did the downvote button go?
  • uhauljoe uhauljoe Now 100%

    I'm on .world and i can downvote on the voyager testflight app

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  • What are the best apps for managing ADHD?
  • uhauljoe uhauljoe Now 100%

    Oh my god I have my entire life and my husband and kiddo's entire life on TickTick.

    Every tiny thing I have to do during the day is planned out.. I can't even express how much I love that app.

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  • My dad just died a few minutes ago, and the paramedics left a mess hidden under his bed.
  • uhauljoe uhauljoe Now 100%

    They meant the asshole commenter was having a mental breakdown. I'm sorry they said that, it's ridiculous.

    You're allowed to grieve or distract yourself in any way you want. (I would discourage anything self destructive obviously)

    There's absolutely nothing wrong with going online. I'm incredibly sorry for your loss, and I am sending many good thoughts your way. ♡

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  • At what point in your life did you decide to step up from Hanes or Fruit of the Loom underwear? Also, if you still wear them, why?
  • uhauljoe uhauljoe Now 100%

    I wear Fruit of the Loom hipsters (I'm a woman).

    Personally I like them bc while the waistband has elastic in it and has stretch, it's not literally an elastic waistband like some underwear.

    The material is really soft and comfortable to wear all day long.

    I still have "other" undies for special occasions, but day to day I'll rock the hell out of some Fruit of the Loom granny panties. I'm married and my husband doesn't care what he pulls off me, so I'd rather be comfortable lol

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  • Do people just not use the YouTube subscription feed?
  • uhauljoe uhauljoe Now 100%

    i've had the same thought as you.

    i regularly use the sub tab. i watch youtube on weekends while i clean, so usually on friday i'll check my home page a few times throughout the day, see if there are any interesting recommendations and save them to my watch later.

    then in the evening i do one more home page scroll, then i slowly scroll my subs page and make sure i save anything that looks interesting to my watch later. then i might watch one or two videos from my WL that evening and i watch the rest (or what i can fit in) over the weekend.

    I don't get the point of subbing to a channel if you aren't checking your subs tab. Like....that's why it's there lol bc the home page is a bunch of recommendations

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  • If you could be featured in any gameshow, what would it be?
  • uhauljoe uhauljoe Now 80%

    Either Cash Cab or Deal or No Deal

    I love watching Cash Cab and trying to guess the answers, and I have a DoND app on my phone and I'm not too shabby lol

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  • [Feature Request] Please move the "Bookmarks" category
  • uhauljoe uhauljoe Now 100%

    Ah I see them now! For some reason Testflight didn't auto update even though I have it set to.

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  • [Feature Request] Please move the "Bookmarks" category
  • uhauljoe uhauljoe Now 100%

    As of right now how do I access them? I've just been assuming that feature wasn't implemented yet.

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  • Benefits of smoking cigarettes?
  • uhauljoe uhauljoe Now 100%

    As someone who smoked Camels for years and is now just as addicted to vaping, there are no benefits. Zero.

    When I smoked cigs, I stank constantly. Even if I sprayed perfume or had a mint. My fingers always smelled.

    I did 12 straight years of choir, but now I have a much smaller vocal range. I'm not as active because I get winded. Now that I vape and have constant access, I get cranky after like 30 minutes of no nicotine.

    My blood pressure is higher. I can't be on the type of birth control that gives me less side effects because my smoking makes it higher risk.

    I'm raising my risk of cancer. I'm spending a fuckton of money on flavored air.

    There is literally no positive and I wish I had never touched it.

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  • I know some features are still coming but just in case these are supposed to be working, I wanted to submit this.

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    Pardon my novice, but does anyone know if it's possible to create guides like this in Maps, with a heading and descriptions and stuff?
  • uhauljoe uhauljoe Now 100%

    agreed!! i like that in google maps i can add little notes to places in my lists

    apple is so bare bones on that front, even just allowing a header and simple notes on each item would go a long way

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  • Don't feel bad for the Moderators of Reddit
  • uhauljoe uhauljoe Now 100%

    Communities can be rebuilt, as we've seen. There really is no excuse at this point for those mods to not leave and start rebuilding somewhere like Lemmy.

    Reddit will never reverse course. Maybe their goal used to be aligned with ours, but now they're just a massive corporation chasing an ever growing profit.

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  • [Self Promo] My Lemmy client, Bean is now available on TestFlight
  • uhauljoe uhauljoe Now 88%

    ok no one cancel me but i think i like it better than memmy, and ive been stuck on memmy for weeks now

    it reminds me of alien blue from years ago!! i'm really excited to dig in and start using it!!

    edit: i did have to change the icon bc as a woman, a pink bean looks like a vaguely sexual app lol so i picked tutti frutti

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  • How many Lemmy users are non-technical background?
  • uhauljoe uhauljoe Now 100%

    I'm non tech.

    I just work as essentially an administrative assistant in a real estate-esque office making $20 an hour.

    Just a married woman in her 20s who is sick of Reddit's shit.

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  • Mastodon or Lemmy
  • uhauljoe uhauljoe Now 100%

    Lemmy feels like Reddit to me and Mastodon feels more like twitter

    so to me they're both decentralized versions of popular social media

    i just think of them as my new reddit and twitter since those companies are sitting at their desks jerking it all day

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  • It looks so much nicer!!! I like the animation of it sliding out Nice work Memmy devs!!

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    If I use the Lemmy mobile site on Safari the posts show up, with comments and everything, but in the app it's like an empty community.

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    That's really it lol. I just don't have the best eyesight so I use a dark theme cause it helps me strain less, but it would feel even more fluid scrolling through my feed if I could easily tell which communities I'm seeing at a glance. Right now I have to pause and scan for a minute to figure it out.

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    https://imgur.com/a/K2QKvaz

    And I got a gram of some acai indica wax to try it with. Been years since I had a dab straw, and that one was silicone. Apparently (according to google) I can freeze this one for an hour to cool down my hits. So excited!!

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    I'd like to make a stickied or pinned post, but I can't figure out how to do that. At the moment my posts are the only posts on the communities, but I don't see any modding options popping up on the 3 dot menu. Or do I just need to wait until someone else posts and then they'll show up? Thank you for any help!

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    houses next to a parking garage in Houston
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